15 HOT Signs Your Twin Flame Is Thinking Of You Sexually

Author: Paul R. Brian 

Much has been said about this sacred union and intimacy of the twin flame connection.

In my experience, this intimate feeling is much more spiritual than physical, although it has an erotic element as well. 

Our soul also has intimate needs in addition to the emotional feeling of being loved, and the feeling of sexual satisfaction.

Let’s be real:

The twin flame connection can be a very confusing feeling, in contrast to ordinary people meeting and having chemistry, or even soul mates. 

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Here’s how to understand the sexual connection between you and your twin flame and get a read on whether your twin flame is thinking of you sexually.

15 HOT Signs Your Twin Flame Is Thinking Of You Sexually

#1. Your Twin Contacts You Just As They Enter Your Thoughts

This is one of the telling signs your twin flame is thinking of you sexually.

Just as you start daydreaming about the hot things they do and you feel your body burning with desire for your twin, a message pops up from them on your phone.


But not really.

It’s not mere coincidence, it’s actually your two bodies feeling burning desire and deep yearning for union with each other at exactly the same time.

#2. You Experience Unexpected Emotions

You can be at your work totally distracted or at a party laughing and dancing when you feel a sudden and strong emotion flooding your body.

This is one of the most obvious signs your twin flame is thinking of you sexually. 

What emotions are we talking about here? Usually it’s emotions like longing and yearning, a deep burning in your gut, or some other carnal feeling that hasn’t been triggered by any human who is physically near you at all. 

Even if he or she is far away, they’re thinking of you in an erotic way, and your soul bond is making you feel that heat all over your body, even at the most inappropriate time. 

It’s likely that your twin flame is actively feeling erotic just imagining being with you. 

And as they’re feeling you in a sexual way, this feeling is reciprocated by you and it resonates deeply within your body.

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#3. One Of Your Eyes Keeps Itching

Another one of the unusual signs your twin flame is thinking of you sexually is that one of your eyes unexpectedly itches...and keeps itching. 

Of course, if you are allergic or have sensitivity in the eye, this is not a psychic sign and you'd better consult a doctor. 

However, if you’re getting an itchy eye out of nowhere, when you don’t normally get this, it may mean that your twin flame is having hot thoughts about you. 

They say the eyes are the windows to the soul, and they’re also highly sensual. Deep sexual connections also often begin with eye contact.

If your eye is itching, it can be because you’re subconsciously receiving strong sexual vibes from your twin flame. 

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#4. Your Cheeks Or Ears Burn

Similar to the issue of an itchy eye, another one of the key  signs your twin flame is thinking of you sexually is that your ears or cheeks burn. 

Maybe you just took a capsule or niacin or ran a marathon. If so, disregard this point. 

But if there is no physical reason for these phenomena, your twin flame is having sexual thoughts of you. 

If your cheeks are turning red for no reason, your twin flame is probably doing something much naughtier. 

The same goes for when you get burning ears. If you could hear the thoughts of your twin flame in detail, they’d probably flare up even more. 

Scandalous (and sexy)!

#5. You Get the Chills For No Reason

This is a sign that you are currently the center of emotional and intensive thoughts within your twin flame. 

How you experience this depends on how you typically tend to experience the chills. You may get chills throughout your whole body and have goosebumps. 

Or you may get a sudden and intense flood of the chills in your upper back and spine, chest or arms.

This is one of the classic signs your twin flame is thinking of you sexually.

    #6. You Have Unexpected Erotic Thoughts

    You may be in the middle of work, an exam or an important meeting - or even having lunch with a friend, and erotic thoughts suddenly appear in your mind.

    The key to look for here is that these erotic thoughts show up unexpectedly and seemingly out of context. In other words, there was no actual reason or direct trigger for these erotic or sexual thoughts.

    If unexpected erotic thoughts occur with some frequency, it may be that your twin flame is having intimate desires about you on a regular basis as well. 

    And they’re definitely hoping to make those thoughts come true in real life. 

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    #7. You Just Know Your Twin Is Secretly Desiring You Right NOW

    What a lot of people don’t understand is that the universe gives its most important messages and communications to you in invisible and intangible ways.

    This is never more true than when you’ve met your twin flame! You don’t need to see your twin in person in order for them to communicate with you.

    The most important messages of your life often just come to you. You don’t have to hear the message straight from someone’s mouth (in this case, your twin flame’s mouth). 

    Like a deep and nagging gut feeling you get about something important, sometimes you just feel it and know it. You just know your twin flame is thinking about you in a sexual way.

    And that’s about all you need to know!

    #8. Sudden Sneezing

    Another one of the top signs your twin flame is thinking of you sexually is that you experience sudden sneezing. 

    This is a typical sign that your twin flame is thinking of you in an erotic way. 

    If you have a cold, disregard this, but otherwise take note:

    Sudden sneezing can be a spiritual effect from the power of your twin flame's erotic thoughts about you.

    #9. Somebody Pops Up in Your Thoughts Out of Nowhere

    Have you ever had the image or memory of someone you know pop up in your thoughts out of nowhere? 

    I think we all have from time to time. 

    But if it's always the same person it may be your twin flame trying to get in touch with you.

    It can also be one of the strongest signs your twin flame is thinking of you sexually.

    If this happens to you regularly, try to be aware of the frequency and patterns you experience. 

    When you have these thoughts, it may be a sign from the universe that your twin flame is thinking of you intimately.

    It can also signify that a meeting between you may be very close to happening.

    #10. A Strong Feeling of Physical Contact

    We cannot talk about twin flame communication without talking about telepathy.

    If you don’t know what telepathy is, it’s the supposed communication of thoughts or ideas by means other than the known senses.

    The sexual thoughts from your twin flame can be so strong that they convey the feeling of physical contact. On your body!

    There’s actually a name for this and it’s twin flame telepathic arousal.

    This is one of several telepathic impacts that can be associated with intense sexual thinking. 

    Your twin is thinking of you so intensely that you have no choice but to be arrested by their sexual thoughts and desire for you, too!

    This feeling of having physical contact with your twin flame is extraordinary. 

    It feels like he’s actually right there, running his hands over your body and making you feel incredible. 

    #11. You Experience Telepathy

    Following on from the previous signs, telepathy is the state of an extraordinary connection and communication between two individuals and arises spontaneously and naturally. 

    If you have the impression of receiving erotic thoughts and ideas from someone else, then that person is trying to connect with you in an intimate way. 

    It's very likely to be your twin flame. Stay alert about this and be ready to respond, because you can connect even deeper with your twin flame when you sense the telepathy and have amazing intimacy and sex that lights your souls on fire!

    #12. You See Your Twin in Your Dreams

    Another one of the important signs your twin flame is thinking of you sexually is that you see him or her in your dreams.  

    These dreams can get truly intense and include scenes of you making love, kissing and enjoying deeply erotic moments together. 

    It may reach the point that you wake up with an orgasm and are convinced the dream was real. 

    To be fair, in a way it was, since your twin flame was reaching out to you via the spirit world to touch you in a scintillating way you’ll never forget. 

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    #13. Uncanny Meetings and Coincidences

    Have you ever thought about someone and you suddenly run into that person, or get a call from them? 

    I have. 

    The fact that you're thinking about someone just before you interact with that person isn't necessarily a direct manifestation of them. 

    But it can be. 

    The universe always tries to get you and your twin flame to meet on the carnal plane and leave the field of purely spiritual interaction. 

    It can be the case that the desire of your twin flame is so great towards you that everything begins to gear up for you to meet physically on this plane. 

    If you’re having a lot of uncanny meetings and coincidences, you’re probably meant to experience something very special with this person. 

    This sign is even more telling if you experience arousal to some degree when you have these uncanny meetings. 

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    #14. You Feel Your Vibrations Rising

    When your twin flame thinks of you sexually, your vibrations rise. 

    The vibration that’s generated actually helps increase the flow from the Source to your chakra energy system. 

    Symptoms of increasing vibrations are: 

    • Butterflies in the stomach
    • Shortness of breath
    • Tingling; and 
    • Intense but happy alertness 

    It seems that suddenly you feel overwhelmed with so much energy and want to express it joyfully and fully. 

    This brings several benefits, including greater metaphysical power and spiritual awareness of everything around you. 

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    #15. A Butterfly Lands On You

    In many cultures, butterflies are considered spiritual beings. It is believed that they help in transmitting energy from person to person. 

    So when a butterfly lands on you, it means it's delivering the thought energy of the person who's thinking of you. 

    When this happens in unexpected places, it can be one of the strongest signs your twin flame is thinking of you sexually (and in a very special way).

    Wrapping Up…

    If you have been noticing many of these signs then there is a very high chance that your twin flame is thinking of you sexually. 

    To find out for sure if there’s more to it or not, take some time to gather your thoughts and recenter. 

    Find a quiet, secluded place where you can meditate, while recreating the feeling you just experienced. 

    Keep it at the center of your mind during the transition to a meditative state. 

    Once there, you can try to follow the telepathic connection. 

    Let your mind wander through your body and see where the sensation seems to pull you. 

    After you find the source, you can sit with the connection. 

    Let the power of the connection to flow over you, allowing images and sounds to occur until one occurs for sure. If the image is not clear, keep trying at least once a day. 

    But if the picture is clear, you'll know exactly who was thinking of you. 

    With practice, you might even find out exactly what they were thinking.

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    Frequently Asked Questions

    Is it good if your twin flame is thinking of you sexually?

    Generally, yes. Making love (spiritually or physically) to a twin flame is very healthy.  

    Intimacy is good because both people can focus on ground level eroticism and not get overly caught up in the monkey mind.

    How do you know if it’s just a random person thinking of you sexually or your twin flame?

    Whenever twin flames make love, they're channeling something bigger than just physical intercourse.

    When the twin flames merge, they lose their selfish ego, find the true self, and increase spiritual awareness. 

    Love between twin flames is like spiritual awakening, and making love is another way to connect with your true love. 

    If the feeling you get is purely sexual, it may not be your twin flame. 

    But if there’s a deeper element of intense connection it may well be your twin flame who’s thinking of you in erotic ways.

    Paul Brian

    Paul Rowan Brian is a freelance journalist, author and writer from Canada. He's written for Ideapod, Hack Spirit and Love Connection and is focused on culture, relationships and self-development. You can follow him on Twitter @paulrbrian.

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